What really happens to your body, in the long term, after kids? Was your partner supportive of this?

You know what? He sounds like he's too immature to have a child if hes worried about you maybe getting a couple stretch marks and your heading a little south. My husband and I are very honest with each other, and he still loves the way i look. Yeah, ive got enough stretch marks on my tummy to be able to do a maze, and my s arent as perky as they were but those things you cant help. With your vag, you can do kegels to bring it back to the original size - really you should be doing kegels if you want kids or not - i'd been doing them for years before i fell pregnant. Have a look at the website the shape of a mother (google it) that will show you some of the possible changes.